Mc D

This is my 1st time sitting at Mc D and looking at my laptop only.
Feel bit weird but yet enjoy the peaceful.
The food here not really nice,
i had ordered Mc Nuggets set but the nuggets is harder than usual

Observe the people around me ...
There is 2 uncles sitting next to main entrance, having their friend talks.
A young guy was sitting alone opposite me, enjoying his meal while reading The Sun
Yea... You can get The Sun in all the Mc D outlet.
There are a family sitting next to me.
Husband and wife having Mc D as dinner with the mother in law and their kid as well

Outside was raining...
Alot passerby were in wet.
Even the Mc D delivery boy was really wet..
Now i understand why Mc D refuse to deliver even they have raincoat.
Is quite pityful.. if they have better knowledge, why they have to work here..
Sometimes alot of thing we cant choose in our life.
They might born in a poor family that can't afford the study fee..
They might not really into study and that is all fate...

Not sure what's wrong with me .. today i just feel empty..
Yea i got work .. i go out for recce .. i go back to office ..
Make phone call, appointment and etc..
But just feel like sitting alone and feel the peaceful..
I'm so tired and lost...
Hope will have a nice sleep after watch my favourite movie
- How to train you dragon- Whee ~~ =)

GOLDEN SAND BAO !!

Location : DucKing, Jaya One, PJ
Time : Lunch hour

For those who know Jaya One very well, sure you know where is DucKing. Is just right opposite Starbucks or next to Secret Recipe. Not sure what is the reason, DucKing always crowded or fully book when i walk pass.

Here it is.. The Golden Sand Baossss!! It looks like normal bao in the picture, but actually is slightly smaller but slightly bigger than the mini bao. If you never tried before, you will suprise with the filling. Is not normal as the outlook!

I really can't resist. Let me have a bite before my main course serve ! It really hot outside and inside. Yum Yum.. (Drolls)

Wonder what is so nice about the filling?? Here is the picture, you can see it yourself. But so sorry due to camera setting problem so the picture not so clear. The filling is just like salted egg yolk mix with custard and sugar syrup. The filling really smell very nice and goes well with the bao. Caution ! Filling is really hot and leaking !!

Sleepless night....

Oh my , what a sleepless night again..
Do i sleep too much or wake up too late today?
Not really.
Don't know why there are alot of pictures and voices,
when i close my eyes.
I believe everyone of you have experience it at least once as mine.

How i wish my room can look at the sky through the window.
There will be some shinny stars give me some light,
A moon that sing to me till i sleep.

Not sure what is the pictures through your mind when you sleepless.
But mine, is all the pass and regret.
I do swear to myself, regret is not allow to step in my life.
even 'it' stepping to my life,
but i will make sure i use the other way to make 'it' turn around.
Nah, all this words for these year is just cheating myself.
The sadness and the most deep in tattoo i got,
was the one i saw him leave me.
Actually alot things we can do to make him stay,
but i don't know why, we just didn't think of it.
When everything is done and end,
you will think alot and that is how sleepless night happen.

Everyone have their own dream,
of course me too. I am just a human too.
Was so innocent and funny when you think back.
Dream that i got a big house such as banglo,
Enough for my father and mother to stay in with their partner.
erm.. ya, my mom and dad separate before he leave us.
But tonight suddenly a question pop up,
How can their stay in a same house happily and peaceful with their own partner?
OMG! I'm so ridiculous!
Here is a point to remind me always think back what target you set,
make sure is no mistake in it.
If till the day you make it come truth,
is too late for you to realise all the mistake.

People always said, do not live in the past.
Nope, i didn't. Just that everyone will have their past be with them,
no matter where they go.
Just depends on how you treat it and how you handle it.
As what i always like to says,
"When comes to a silent night, emotional will slowly climb out from the wall you set"

There is no fault to be emotional.
But make sure you find a good way to comfort 'it'.
Do not misleading it till tragedy happen.
Use a correct way to make yourself feel better,
and my way is write it out.
Not to announce it, but i just want to write it out in my open diary.
Hope i can really sleep now.
Gosh !! still need to OT tomorrow !!

Guy & Girl

This topic will be abit sensitive.
But no worries, don't feel offended,
Just write it out base on the experience and the things happened around me.


I think there are few things guy will definately worry the GF will request them to do so:-
1) Stop smoking
2) Stop drinking
3) Cut down entertainment with friend
4) Drive slowly or carefully or don't 'greets' ppl's family when driving
5) Shopping with her
6) Pay for her shopping
7) Cutting football show with friends
8) Give her an 'safety' report no matter where you go
9) Stop playing online game such as RO online
10) Drive her around just like her driver

*I believe there are still quite alot i didn't mention, but just take the 10 as above as reference.

There are alot of things that girls will hope their BF can improve and not dislike their attitude:-
1) Get rid of smoking
2) If possible, cut down the 'connection' with liquor
3) Keep a distance with female close friends
4) Spend the weekend with her but not his friends only
5) Do not drive like a mad when he loss temper
6) Shopping with her just like her female buddy
7) Send her sms no matter where he go which without her
8) Give her some big warm hug all the times.
9) Support and help her during the diet period
10) Be honest and don't lie to her

*I believe for girls, there are definately much much more than those above 10 things. Cause there is a sentence claim that guy always more simple than girl. Is it correct? Is depends ...

Alot of guys and girls cant get along and they didn't think of why have to do all this.
Men from Mars, Women from Venus. I believe alot of you have heard of this sentence b4
Since men and women are come from different planet,
the only way to solve the misunderstand between both will be - communications

Alot of us has forgot the simple way to solve problem is to 'tell'
What is 'tell'?
Tell your feeling and your thinking.
To talk to each other to understand not to shout for arguement.


For girls,
Try to sit down now, drink a bit of cold drink, play some relax music or lounge bossa nova music.
Slowly close your eyes, and try to think.....
Why guy scare of their GF request them to change?
1) Stop smoking
- smoking is a bad habit, but if he really stressful and there is no other way. Don't be too strict,
let him have at least one or two sticks. Of course, only when the person is in good health
condition.

2) Stop drinking
- Sometimes drinking related to job. Maybe they wanted to avoid it, but thing just happen.
They force to drink and have to entertain client, it's apart of the job. As long as he not always
get drunk and mess up everything, then let him. Understand his feeling, he is tired too.

3) Cut down entertainment with friends
- No matter how, guys they still need friends for chat and share. Of course he will share his
things with you, but sometimes they need help from friends to surprise you as well. Let
them have a healthy contact with friends as long as he not doing something unfaithful to you.
Something he cant talk to you but he needs a male friends to talk with and understand him.

4) Drive slowly or carefully or don't 'greets' ppl's family when driving
- I think alot of the girls facing this issue. Guy is just so easy to loss their temper when driving.
Try to explain to him, this will relate to the future if you have plan for future. Just tell him
nicely, why you don't like he do so. Guy will listen if you tell him nicely instead of you says
they just stubborn like a cow.

5) Shopping with her
- Some guy just shy or not comfortable to wait you in female apperal shop. Try to find out
why he don't like shopping with you, or maybe just discuss with him nicely so you can go
shopping with your friends instead of go with him and cause him uncomfortable.

6) Pay for her shopping
- He work very hard to get a monthly fix salary or maybe sometimes with extra allowance.
You can ask him buy you present but not pay all your shopping. He still need the money to
support his living.

7) Cutting football shows with friends
- I think most of the guy like football so much, some of the girl as well. If you feel lonely when
he watch football match with friends at outside, try to be little bit hardworking. Discuss
with him and try to have a mini football match show in your house. If you lazy to clean up,
you can just forget bout the idea.

8) Give her an 'safety' report no matter where you go
- Some guy just used to the freedom of single life. Just explain to them why you ask them to
do so, and don't get mad of them. They might not used to it and will forget sometimes. It
possible their friend will laugh at them as well. Protect his pride and be patience.

9) Stop playing online game such as RO online
- There are alot guy and girl playing RO online. But there are alot couple separate because of
online games, chatting and others give them a chance to be unfaithful. But believe to fate, if
he really have another girl, there is no point to hold him. If he meant to be your man, no
matter what is happen in between, the ending will still be the happy ending.

10) Drive her around just like her driver
- Sometimes he have to do his job and he have his own schedule. Try to discuss with him
earlier and make arrangement. If he can't make it, don't get mad. Understand his situation,
make sure yourself reach the destination safely. Do not use your life to bet for an answer.


For Guys,
Try to sit down now, hold a glass of red wine, play some music or Kenny G kind of music.
Slowly close your eyes, and try to think.....
Why your GF hopes you can improve on certain thing?
1) Get rid of smoking
- It can really spoil your health and cause cancer. She loves you, that's why she wish you to
be healthy and live longer with her. She just don't want to miss any second with you.

2) If possible, cut down the 'connection' with liquor
- Girl actually is very simple. There is only 2 reason, she worry that you might drunk and flirt
with others. Another is same with the first one, she worry bout your health. Conclusion still,
She really love you, that's why she will care and feel sad.

3) Keep a distance with female close friends
- This issue is very personal issue. You have to understand her past. She might get hurts in
some kind of situation related with this issue. Try to comfort her and give her confident
with your action.

4) Spend the weekend with her but not his friends only
- Girls usually will change their lifestyle after they in a relationship. She miss you and she feel
like joining you and your friend. Give her a chance if there is not a guy talk section. You also
might experience the different thing as well.

5) Do not drive like a mad when he loss temper
- Is really very danger to drive around in this situation. You will makes her worry because
after you drop her, you will drive alone back home. If you love her, try to control your
temper and drive carefully. Not only for your GF, but your family as well. They love you!

6) Shopping with her just like her female buddy
- Actually i believe around 3% of the guy can make it. The rest if they succeed, they are gay!
Guy & Girl will never have a same taste. Encourage her to give you opinion but not force.
If he feel uncomfortable, discuss with him so next time you can shop with your female buddy
and avoid the arguement. Guy please understand that she like to ask you because she wear
it for you. If you don't bother the piece of cloth on her, she will feel that you boring of her.

7) Send her sms no matter where he go which without her
- There are alot of thing could be happen, just practice it and make it become a habit so the
people around you will not so worry bout you. Not only her, your family as well. You will
be a father one day, learn to be responsible earlier the better.

8) Give her some big warm hug all the times
- Girl can be sensitive and emotional. Especially girl have to go through period. Sometimes
maybe you think you have done everything to make her happy. But sometimes she don't
need any present, she just want a hug from you. No harm to give her at least a hug a day.

9) Support and help her during the diet period
- Due to our age is always add up and never cut down, metabolism will slow down as well. She
might always go out supper with you and due to metabolism slow down, she gain weight.
Girl is just like to keep their good image to show you. When they decide to diet, please
be supportive and try to help them in healthy diet way.

10) Be honest and don't lie to her
- Girl always prefer the guy will tell her everything and be honest. Even though he got another
girl, your GF / wife still prefer you tell her personally instead of she find out herself or from
others. It will hurts her, but this is the lesser hurt way for her. Be honest, you already did
something hurts her so don't lie to make it hurt deeper. Of course, you can have your own
little secret and i believe girl will have as well. As long as is not harmful to the relationship,
everything is fine.




OK! my rubbish time is over! Now is midnight 2.43am in Malaysia. A sleepless night...
Now you know how come i so free to write all those rubbish theory..
For those who has read and does not agree with what i wrote,
Please do not shoot me down or beat me ya!
=)

Be The Simple 'You'

Date : 10th Jan 10
Time : 9pm
Venue : Restaurant Ho Boh


Restaurant Ho Boh is a Hakka dishes restaurant.
Some of you might know some of you might not.
Still remember i saw the article bout this restaurant is 2 years ago.
I know Hakka dishes quite well cause my mom is Hakka.
They have shop at KL and Taipan as well.
The one i have a try is located at Taipan. =)

If you are chinese, for sure you will know after give birth there is a dish use 'chinese wine' cook with ginger and chicken.
The smell if really very nice and tasty!
Besides that, Hakka famous with a kind of Yam kuih.
Is salty dish, cook with black fungus, dry prawn, garlic, fried onion and etc...

The decoration of Restaurant Ho Boh is very simple and old style.
If you live in wooden house village before, then you will definately know what i try to say.
The wooden cupboard with net door to keep bowl, plates, spoons, chopsticks and etc.
All the wooden furniture and the simple and village feel.
It brings you another kind of feel and you can experience what is a village life.

Simple but happy. Not rich but yet to survive. =)
Village life always the best because all the villages are very easy to satisfy of their life.
At least they are happy and have a warm family compare to who stay in city always need to work for money and live in a lonely big house.

As mentioned, i ordered 3 simple dishes.
Taufu with pork, 'chinese wine' chicken & fried meatball - the one reminds me of all my childhood memories with family.
My mom always like to made fried meatball when me & my brother still in primary school.
We don't have our own house, we rent a small 'rumah panjang' with RM50.
Our life is just enough for spend, simple but we happy. =)
Mom work as promoter, father is a sawmill who always will take care the house and take some woods from factory and make us writting desks, cupboard, chair and etc...
Our transport only motorbike, bicycle and of cause transport number eleven. (Jalan Kaki, the 2 legs look like eleven, the number)

Long time i never had this dish already.
Father has gone to heaven and mom most propably forgot she like to make this dish last time.
Especially Chinese New Year Eve.
I was so naughty last time, refuse to eat due to always get to eat.
Now.. at the moment i saw it on menu,
only i notice long long long time ago... i had this dish before..
When i have my first bite,
the feeling is really unexplainable and tears is nearly drop. =)
How much i miss it =)
Not only the taste but the memories.

Alot of us has forgot what we have last time,
but it might be beautiful and meaningful.
Sometimes we are just busy of our life and forget about the simple thing.
Sometimes we thought something is not important,
but maybe 10 years later, you want to see/touch/feel it again,
is really impossible.
Catch what you have, appreciate what you get.
You need to work hard for your future,
but never ever forget about the simple & happy 'you' in past. =)

Dinner at Seremban with Mama

Date : 3rd January 2010

Time : 8:30pm

Venue : The Manhattan Fish Market

Guest : Penguin mom & me =P

Haiz... 2009 is gone and time to plan for 2010 dy.

But... finally i on leave for 3 days and now in my hometown !!!

Long time never have a long long holiday and sit down chatting with my family.

My mama, brother and sister-in-law. (uncle oustation)

Mmm... reach Seremban about 2:40pm,

guess what the first time i do ?
I went Terminal 1 shopping mall shopping !!!

But i shop for fabric which for my own design use. =)

Was starving the whole afternoon due to be piggy too long in the morning,

need to rush for bus.

But still...Very happy and really a satisfied afternoon.

Have come out few design and discuss with mama,

everything is set & wait for time....

After the whole busy afternoon,

the piggy noon for my sister-in-law

& PS3 noon for my brother,

is time for dinner!! Hungry !!! Hungry !!!

Is Jusco dinner and shopping time again !!

erm... Seremban famous and the only comfortable shoppingmall.

My brother and sister-in-law was 'gila' about McD prosperity burger!

Of course me and my mom will go for others!

After walk here and there, here and there...

Finally ... we go in to The Manhattan Fish Market!

(Actually both of us first time dine there. pai seh .. pai seh..)

We were so so so hungry , but they leave us after put down the sauces.. =.='

Mama order this.. forgot the glamour name.. But is Choco + Vanilla + Peanut

Mama so enjoy her drink but with the LC looks.

Sizzling Butter Garlic Prawns + Garlic breads

Look at the plate...still boiling !!

My Seafood Carbonara !!

Mama enjoying her Baked Dory Fish with herbs.

*Iam hungry again now.... aiks... FAT !!

My recent lifestyle...

Hmm.... look at the clock, the time is 6:42am now..
What are you doing? Stupid question... Of course sleeping like piggy now lo !!
Why am i still awake??
Sleepless night? Just back from clubbing? Just finish my drama Series?
Non as above.
Today is just a really tired and sleepy day, but .. surprisingly i still awake at this time.
Not sure is happy or sad.
Happy?? Course proof that i still 'young'. Which all the ladies so sensitive about.
Sad?? Got time to sleep but don't sleep. Wrinkles and eye bags will stick to me for a long long long time.. haiz...

Just finish uploading some new stock to my blogshop, www.mywondermall.com
Were slow down last year, hehe... bit over act.. just last month la.. Dec 09... now is Jan 10 dy.. Consider last year lo. =P
Alot of my customer has been asking me when got new stock. Really so so so sorry.
Was thinking of my own design too which i going to try and sew on this long holiday.
At the same time, have checked my full time job email and reply some urgent email.
Done everything and now checking around me and writting my blog..
Guess what i see ....

My 2 furries... Fei po (the bigger one) & Notty po (smaller one) sleeping like a really dead pig on my blanket !!!
Fei po always more 'human' style and not so lady. Dorothy(notty po) always have the cat personality, stay glamour, look lady and never have those ugly picture. She know how important her outlook and image tho. hehehe....

Sometimes i was really happy when see both of them. Even i stress of my work, my life or there are things in my mind .. both of them just like to make drama and chasing around... their fool and stupid actions sometimes really make me laugh like hell. I love them so much. Cant imagine one day if they leave me what will i feel. I was so scare of 'that day' coming... Is happy and sad later if you got a lovely pet. They always leave us one day and we will be very very upset that time.

Hmm... is 7am now... should go for dim sum or sleep?
Long time don't have this kind of life..
I believe most of you will do the same thing as me during CNY right? =)
I will still do for this coming CNY !! kekeke....
Only once a year.. have to enjoy bit...
CNY is just around the corner... about a month leave for preparation only.
Hopes that i got bonus and increment this year. *Pray super super hard
For whoever not aware CNY is just at the corner, remember to plan your CNY shopping now ya.
Shopping malls will be very very peak soon...
Enjoy shopping !!!
May all of us get bonus bonus bonus !!!

Happy New Year!!